So you can

July 18, 2022

A little bit of love

This is me promoting you to promote yourself. A little bit of love and support can go a long mile as it recharges itself into a gigantic self-promoting battery, respectfully and humbly.

The only way to experience success (real success) is to be successful from the inside of you living every moment like you mean it.

Let’s be honest, most of us understand that to be the “us” that we are not comfortable looking into as there is too much fear.

Are you afraid of what you are made of, especially if it came with the heavy baggage of self-traumatizing experiences through life’s struggles and difficult and deceptive relationships?

I am not sure why most of the talented and pleasant souls go through experiences in life that makes it even more challenging to shine the beauty of who they really are. I think that makes one reflect more and refine one’s character deeper into perfection.

If you are the confident type or at least pretending to be, or you are born in luxury that has intoxicated you into a being that knows not real suffering or pain, or you are buried so deep in denial about your narcissistic self-made personality which works well in the world you live in, or you feel life is all good and there is no problem bothering you, then these words might fail to reach your heart and you might want to choose to read something that pleases you and not make you squirm in truth that does exist in the world.

Faith and Belief

For once don’t you think there must be someone, just one out there to listen to your golden voice? Of course, you do and I am positively sure that there is at least one out there who would love to hear that voice. Let’s see, oh, that would be me, the first one.

It begins with believing in something, one thing that is true within. It can even begin with someone else believing in you.

You are the one in whom I believe come voice of angels come and behold you are the one in whom I believe.

So, what do you mean by believing?

Basically, the energy generated from a thought in the mind creates emotions and feeling. What I mean to say is if there are angry thoughts bouncing around in the mind mostly thinking of someone who is exhibiting active presence in your relationship, then one feels angry and bitterness even reflecting the effect on the faces.

So backtracking to the concept of how to believe or what is belief, it is a thought.

You know, there is love in my heart and I am a (damn) good person. I believe in that one truth in myself.

Bingo! There you go.

Thoughts and Thinking

Have you ever given thought to how you think? Do you think in your mother tongue or any language that you are comfortable with. I used to think in Thamilzh. Then someone who only speaks English pointed out that there is communication gap because you think in Thamilzh and I do in English. After being with my English talking family for a while my mind now only thinks in English. It does not seem to be that big of a deal but think about it. Most of the time when we communicate we think we have come across clear but we might not have even been close to touching the tip of the iceberg. Then imagine the distance between you and your mind while thinking, saying and acting.

Yes, it is a lot of work but doable. Cleaning up the clutter and getting to a point of smooth flow of thoughts, good thoughts, is work. Where there is clutter there is confusion. A confused mind or a scattered brain can only do so much to keep up with the demanding and aggressive world.

Welcome, to the new path of believing what is true within.

Common, anyone and everyone is becoming a hacker nowadays. Why is it so hard for anyone to break through the firewalls of depressing deceptions of thoughts like I can’t do it, I am no good, I suck…

These negative thoughts arising from induced weakness or weakness that uses dramatic emotions to attract attention and even actually knows deep within it is a kind of strength to get people to dance around, make you feel a certain way which is not good. One can come out of this dramatic room if one chooses to.

What we are talking about is a thought. A thought is a seed that grows and outgrows everything that it is not.

A seed of belief, a seed of good thought that makes you feel good. Hack through the firewalls built without permission with the sole intention of oppressing you and get your hands into the world of the real good you.

It is growing, so it will become big one day and be the tree of life that bears sweet fruit to the weary travelers and provide shade for those who need some rest.

This is just one small ripe fruit that you ate and relishing the sweetness of its truth in beauty and goodness.

Trust me, if I can, anyone can. I also started with one thought as a seed.

If I felt good writing it I am sure you felt good reading it.

So you can.

All my stories are from real experiences. A picture with words on it to read was just what we needed at that time to trigger thinking and feel good. Our family saw this sign on a parking lot of a store in America, while we were homeless and living with a reluctant friend temporarily and had no idea where our lives were heading. We did not have the luxury to even think of a future but we knew we were heading somewhere and many good things were happening, especially, the big change from within. The little joys and the big lessons we were learning made our miserable life in motels with a boy and a cat, look so small, that we got all the strength and energy to keep going and create many more stories.

Your business is you, so, you, can.